Why am I so grouchy>?
I mean pool party does not seem to be a hot tub issue. It is unhealthy to sit for hours in a hot tub..so then a person shouldn’t. It is irresponsible for a person to have company over till 3am ish on a school night when they have school aged children. It is just not my life style to drink alcohol on a Tuesday night when you have to work the next day. I would say that it is irresponsible, unless you do not have to have a clear head at work because you know that everyone else will take care of everything else whilst you baby your head in the privacy of your own office.
One night I can handle..the second night I am annoyed especially when the group gets louder, drunker, larger and stays later. I do not appreciate being woken up at 3:30am in general, but when I know it is because the "party" is being wound down it is even more annoying.
Note to self: Never have a hot tub when living with someone who considers them self a bachelor and has inconsiderate habits.
I am reminded why I wanted my own apartment, and I think I have overstayed my welcome. Well for myself anyway.
Now how do I communicate this to my brother?… In a considerate mature manner?